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10-year-old Mexican girl gives birth to baby boy after 31-week pregnancy


10-year-old Mexican girl gives birth to baby boy after 31-week pregnancy - Country's laws prohibit abortion procedures for children under 12

A 10-year-old Mexican girl has given birth to a baby boy after a 31-week pregnancy, according to reports.

The premature infant, which weighed 3.3 pounds, was born by Caesarian section at the Women’s Hospital in the city of Puebla and is in the intensive care unit recovering from pneumonia.

The young mother, who is from the nearby San Francisco Totimehuacan community, has returned home after the procedure but visits the baby every day to breastfeed, officials said.

The Puebla state Attorney General's Office is now investigating whether the girl could have been raped and who the father is, the hospital’s director Rogelio Gonzalez said, according to UpFrontNewswire.


 
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Mexican state laws say young moms are unable to have abortions unless a girl can prove she was the victim of sexual assault.

The state’s minimum age of consent is 12 and women who undergo abortions in Puebla face a fine or prison sentence if they are unable to prove they were sexually abused.

The laws are currently under review.

The girl, who has not been named, arrived at the medical facility on Oct. 22, suffering from life-threatening complications, including seizures.

Hospital officials said the newborn is in a good condition considering his premature birth and the mother is recovering well.

This is not the first case of a shockingly young girl giving birth in Mexico.

In August last year, 11-year-old Amalia had a child two weeks premature after she was denied an abortion by the local Justice Department during the fourth month of pregnancy.

She was raped repeatedly by her stepfather when she was 10 years old, but local laws do not allow terminations after three months. ( nydailynews.com )

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'Thanks to God for protecting us from a kind of devil': Lady Gaga forced to cancel Indonesia concert amid protests by hard-line Muslims


'Thanks to God for protecting us from a kind of devil': Lady Gaga forced to cancel Indonesia concert amid protests by hard-line Muslims - Lady Gaga cancelled her sold-out show in Indonesia after Islamist hard-liners threatened violence, claiming her sexy clothes and provocative dance moves would corrupt the youth.

The controversy was a blow to the predominantly Muslim country's reputation for combining free speech and democracy with a mostly moderate brand of the faith.

Fans were devastated, despite the promoter's offer of full refunds.


Bad Romance: Indonesian Islamic hardliners chanting 'go to hell Lady Gaga' stage a protest against the pop diva
Bad Romance: Indonesian Islamic hardliners chanting 'go to hell Lady Gaga' stage a protest against the pop diva

Regret: Gaga later tweeted: 'We had to cancel the concert in Indonesia. I'm so very sorry to the fans & just as devastated as you if not more. You are everything to me'
Regret: Gaga later tweeted: 'We had to cancel the concert in Indonesia. I'm so very sorry to the fans & just as devastated as you if not more. You are everything to me'


Some accused police - who refused to issue a permit over concerns about security - of buckling to the will of a small group of thugs.

The planned 'Born This Way Ball' concert has been on-again-off-again from the start.


Too sexy? Hard-liners threatened violence, claiming Lady Gaga's clothes and dance moves would corrupt Indonesia's youth
Too sexy? Hard-liners threatened violence, claiming Lady Gaga's clothes and dance moves would corrupt Indonesia's youth

But on Sunday, it was final, said Minola Sebayang, a lawyer for Big Daddy, the promoter of the June 3 show.

'It's unfortunate,' he said. 'But with threats if the concert goes ahead, Lady Gaga's side is calling it off. This is not only about Lady Gaga's security, but extends to those who will be watching her.'

On Sunday, she tweeted: 'We had to cancel the concert in Indonesia. I'm so very sorry to the fans & [I am] just as devastated as you if not more. You are everything to me.'

Indonesia, a secular nation of 240 million, is often held up by the U.S. and others an example of how democracy and Islam and can coexist. In many ways they are right.

Since emerging from dictatorship just over a decade ago, sweeping reforms have resulted in direct elections, while vastly improving human rights and freeing up the media.

But a small extremist fringe has become more vocal - and violent - in recent years, attacking Christians and members of other religious minorities, transvestites, atheists and anyone else deemed 'immoral.'

The most notorious group, Islamic Defenders Front, called Lady Gaga a 'messenger of the devil' and vowed to turn out at the airport by the thousands if she tried to step off the plane.

Others said they bought tickets so they could wreak havoc from inside the 52,000-seat stadium in the capital, Jakarta.

Police responded by denying the necessary permits. Then, after public outcry, they said they'd reconsider - but only if Lady Gaga agreed to tone down her act.


Occupy Gaga: A Muslim elementary school student holds a defaced poster of U.S. pop singer Lady Gaga during a protest against her concert, which was scheduled to be held on June 3
Occupy Gaga: A Muslim elementary school student holds a defaced poster of U.S. pop singer Lady Gaga during a protest against her concert, which was scheduled to be held on June 3

Instead, she pulled the plug on what was supposed to be the biggest stop on her Asian tour.
Michael Rusli, head of Big Daddy, promised 'Little Monster' fans full refunds.

But that provided little consolation to people like 25-year-old Johnny Purba.


Speaking out: This child was one of the many Muslims who don't wish to see Lady Gaga's 'poker face' in Indonesia
Speaking out: This child was one of the many Muslims who don't wish to see Lady Gaga's 'poker face' in Indonesia


'This only shows to the world how weak security forces are in this country, how police are afraid of a bunch of hard-liners,' he said.

'Gaga's two-hour show will not hurt Indonesian Muslims. For God's sake, she is not a terrorist!'

Around 50 others, dressed up like the pop diva, performed a mob flash dance at a shopping mall in the capital, Jakarta, to some of her biggest hits.

Hard-liners, however, were ecstatic.

'This is a victory for Indonesian Muslims,' said Salim Alatas, one of the leaders of the Islamic Defenders Front, or FPI. 'Thanks to God for protecting us from a kind of devil.'

Earlier, Murhali Barda, a spokesman for the group, said supporters had purchased more than 150 tickets to the concert.

He'd posted a picture on his Facebook page of a man hiding his identity with a turban and sunglasses and holding a $50 ticket to the 'Ball.'

'We have gotten Lady Gaga tickets,' the caption said. 'Not to watch but for us to enter.'

'Our target is to stop the concert,' he wrote, providing little more detail. 'We would force them off the stage but not harm the audience.'


Demands: Hundreds of Indonesian activists claimed that the singer's stage show was 'incompatible with Indonesian culture'
Demands: Hundreds of Indonesian activists claimed that the singer's stage show was 'incompatible with Indonesian culture' ( dailymail.co.uk )

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Whale watchers spot incredible dolphin stampede


Whale watchers spot incredible dolphin stampede - They were hoping to spot a whale but instead these lucky tourists witnessed something even more breath-taking – a stampede of dolphins.

With the sun setting over the Californian ocean providing a beautiful backdrop, hundreds of dolphins raced through the water with the boat of whale watchers quick on their tail.

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Stampede: Some lucky whale watchers witnessed a giant pod of dolphins cutting through the Californian ocean.

Stampede: Some lucky whale watchers witnessed a giant pod of dolphins cutting through the Californian ocean.

It is unclear what the school of dolphins were rushing towards – or away from.

The incredible sighting happened off the coast of Dana Point in California last week on a Dana Wharf whale watching tour.

Hundreds: The tour boat trailed the huge stampede of dolphins.

Hundreds: The tour boat trailed the huge stampede of dolphins.

While this tour was especially memorable it seems that a whale or dolphin is sighted on every Dana Wharf tour, according to their website.

People taking the trip can expect to see six different types of whale, including killer whales, as well as common dolphins and bottlenose dolphins. ( dailymail.co.uk )

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A day in the life of Lu Hao, the four-year-old toddler who weighs nine-and-a-half STONE


A day in the life of Lu Hao, the four-year-old toddler who weighs nine-and-a-half STONE - As he struggles to haul his massive bulk from the ground, it is clear four-year-old Lu Hao is no ordinary toddler.

The obese Chinese child's parents told last week how their son - who is five times the size of children his age - eats a staggering three bowls of rice for dinner each day.

And as these pictures show, Lu Hao's daily routine revolves heavily around sitting, sleeping and - less surprisingly, eating.


Finding his feet: Lu Zao struggles to stand up as his mother buckles under his nine-and-half-stone frame
Finding his feet: Lu Zao struggles to stand up as his mother buckles under his nine-and-half-stone frame


His father Lu Yuncheng and mother Chen Yuan remain mystified why he has grown so big, after being born weighing a perfectly healthy 2.6kg (5.7lbs).

His weight has dramatically ballooned from three months old when his near-insatiable appetite grew by the week.

According to Lu Hao's parents, their son gains weight no matter how hard they restrict his diet or push him to move about.

He has gained 10kg in the past year, despite all attempts by his mother and father to take keep him active.

Lu Hao walks with his parents and even works up a sweat playing with a basketball.

Unsurprisingly however, even when attempting exercise the enormous toddler chews on a lollipop.


More please: Hao, with a piece of food apparently stuck to his face, demands an extra serving during kindergarten class
More please: Hao, with a piece of food apparently stuck to his face, demands an extra serving during kindergarten class


Having a ball: Hao stretches to reach a basketball while sucking on a lollipop near his home
Having a ball: Hao stretches to reach a basketball while sucking on a lollipop near his home


Pictured at kindergarten near his home in Foshan, Guandong province, the rice-loving boy clearly enjoys one of his favourite parts of the day as he waves an empty food bowl at a teacher.

Some of the shots of Lu Hao's daily routine raise concerns about whether his sight is impaired by his chubby cheeks.

His parents are worried he may be bullied when he becomes older and more self-aware, though pictures show that Lu Hao is already an object of fascination for his kindergarten classmates.

Later in the day he is seen napping during a break in class after clearly tiring from his earlier activities.

Since Hao was one-year-old his parents have tried to keep a careful eye on his diet.


Time out: The four-year-old 'hates walking to school' and is instead taken there on his mother's motorcycle
Time out: The four-year-old 'hates walking to school' and is instead taken there on his mother's motorcycle

Hao strolls near his home with his mother Chen Yuan, left and father Lu Yuncheng
Hao strolls near his home with his mother Chen Yuan, left and father Lu Yuncheng


However, Lu Hao - who hates walking to school and often gets a ride there by motorcycle - has now grown so big that his mother is unable to pick him up.

Chen Yuan said: 'We have to let him be as if we don't feed him he will cry non-stop.

'He is quite happy that I could ride him to kindergarten instead of walking him there.'

To push Hao to do more sports, the family installed a basketball hoop in the yard and often take him to swim in a local river.

But the exercise just make him hungrier and results in him putting on more weight.

His father Yuncheng said: 'We took him to three hospitals and one said he has a tumour in the head, while the other two said there is no tumour in the head.

'Doctors said his hormones are at a normal level. It's hard to know why he could be so big.'

'We now worry the most about his health. As if he continues to grow at this rate his heart could fail,' said Yuan.

'Our biggest hope is one day Hao could get slim.


Nap time: After having his energy sapped from a busy morning at kindergarten, Hao takes takes a snooze

Nap time: After having his energy sapped from a busy morning at kindergarten, Hao takes takes a snooze


The four-year-old is five times bigger than children his age and faces being bullied when he is older according to his family
The four-year-old is five times bigger than children his age and faces being bullied when he is older according to his family ( falymail.co.uk )

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Sexual Confidence


Sexual Confidence - According to the American Psychological Association, 30-40% of women are somewhat unhappy with their appearance, while another 45% experience anxiety or depression due to dissatisfaction with their appearance. In other words, millions of women experience feelings of low self esteem and lack confidence about how they look -- and this has to affect how they feel about themselves sexually.

How can a woman feel empowered in her sexuality, attractive, and free to make good choices for herself if she feels unattractive, unappealing, and unworthy? Maybe a more constructive question is, How can we help women feel attractive and more confident about how they look?


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First, don't compare yourselves to the women modeling in the glossy magazines or the starlets on the red carpet. These small, often underweight women are the exceptions, not the rule. (And I would guess that a fair amount of them experience disordered eating as a result of the pressure to be thin.)

Second, find one thing about yourself you do like and focus on that, dwell on it -- cherish that feature. Become more accustomed to those parts of yourself you do like. Write them down. Remind yourself of them. Affirm them every day.

Third, try to banish the negative behaviors that you turn to when you feel low or bad about yourself. Do you reach for food when you're feeling bad? Do you sit in front of the television with a bag of chips or a pint of ice cream? Now resist.

And fourth, when you next feel bad, make a choice to do something positive for yourself -- take a walk, read a book, call a friend. By resisting the bad choice and consciously acting on a good one, you will reinforce your self control. This builds confidence. ( lifestyle.yahoo.com )

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Kayaking in New Zealand: A classic way to experience nature


Kayaking in New Zealand: A classic way to experience nature - It’s amazing how much you can fit into a double-seated kayak.

Despite an apparent exiguity, the hull can actually hold up to 400 liters, enough to store food, beverages, and the camping gear required for a three-day sea kayaking trip along the Abel Tasman National Park coastline. Provided you pack with care.

So the first instructions our guide Banksie gave us when we met him in Marahau that morning was to empty our backpacks and place our items in sturdy plastic bags that we could squish into our kayak’s bow and stern.


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Little paradise: Te Pukatea Bay in New Zealand’s Abel Tasman National Park is only accessible by kayak or a half-hour walk off the Abel Tasman Walk near Anchorage.


“Do not tie a knot in case you rip the plastic when opening the bags later on. Just twist the loose end tight. And keep your camping and kayaking clothes separate. You’ll be amazed to see your shorts stand on their own after a three-day salt charge.”

It’s precisely that sort of advice, simple yet pragmatic, that smooth the novice’s kayaking experience, that we were looking for when my partner and I signed up with Abel Tasman Kayaks, one of a handful of tour companies based in the region, for a “three-day classic tour” to discover the stunning shores of New Zealand’s South Island northern tip.

Although this destination is renowned for its 51-kilometer walking trail, sea kayaking has been increasingly popular with visitors over the past years. No wonder: The littoral, a contorted string of crescent-shaped coves and convoluted granite headlands, is ideal to explore on boat.

From the ocean, the buttery sand stretch cleaves two layers of green, a lush forest of beech, tea and fern trees on top, and clear emerald water on the bottom. Such a setting is worthy of tropical paradise postcards, only the water is a tad more chilly, a mere 18 degrees Celsius for the last end of December.

After all, Banksie reminds us, we are situated at the 41 degrees of latitude.

A water taxi hauled our crew — a trio of Kiwi women, a German couple, a Dutch veterinary student, the two of us, our guide, our gear and five kayaks — to Awaroa Bay. Trips usually start a little further North, at Totaranui, but low tide meant the nearby inlet was dry. So we bypassed the overly crowded beach entirely and started paddling our way back down the 30 kilometers to Marahau at a leisurely pace, occasionally halting on a beach for a dip and sun-tanning session.

No journey in the Abel Tasman resembles another. The tides, which alter the face of the coastline and bar access to lagoons when ebbing, are one reason. The weather is another. There may not be any ferocious animal in New Zealand, but is the weather fierce and unpredictable!

Occasionally, the roaring 40s will act up and stir 3-meter swells.

“I have been stuck on shore a couple of times. Usually, clients feel excited. Being trapped on a beach adds to the story they’ll tell back home”, Banksie jokes.

Fortunately we were spared treacherous conditions. Apart from a morning of choppy waves which barely gave us a hint of what a storm could amount to, the sun blessed our journey all the way.

It is remarkable that, despite the flock of tourists, it is still possible to find a sense of remoteness and isolation in the park. Some bays, such as Bereton Cove where we had our first lunch, are only accessible by sea. Moreover, the department of conservation which manages the park judiciously capped the number of tents allowed on the 18 campsites so that some feel quite exclusive. Akersten Bay, for instance, only accommodates three tents…


Follow the leader: Banksie, the Abel Tasman Kayaks guide, paddles past some of the national park’s amazing nature.

Follow the leader: Banksie, the Abel Tasman Kayaks guide, paddles past some of the national park’s amazing nature.Banksie livened up the cruise with elements of zoology, botany, history and geology that deepened our understanding of Abel Tasman’s uniqueness. He took us to visit a fur seal colony on Tonga Island, pointed out the various species of birds, insects and fish — spotted cormorants, oystercatchers, cave wetas, and glow worms. A stroll around Pitt Head bore the opportunity to single out invasive species, the gorse and the pine trees, which have taken over the native forest after the first growth was burnt down by settlers. The soil ended up being too poor for agricultural endeavors; the area has been slowly regenerating since the mid-1800s.


At night, our host transformed into a chef, cooking butter chicken, trifle, burritos and chocolate fudge while we, vacationers, chatted over a glass of a local Marlborough Sauvignon Blanc.

This was definitely not camping rough! We felt spoiled. So it seems quite ironic that when in 1642, the Dutch seafarer Abel Tasman didn’t linger too long in the nearby Golden Bay where he had anchored his ships.

The first recorded European to have sighted Aotearoa New Zealand lost four men in a skirmish with local Maori. Little did he know that three centuries later, a recreational park would bear his name. ( thejakartapost.com )



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Young kids and computers


Young kids and computers -Parents grapple with how much online time is too much for very young children.

There have been plenty of research and philosophizing about preteens' and teenagers' use of computers. But very young children are also logging time with the mouse and keyboard, and parents are grappling with how much is too much.

A 2006 study by the Kaiser Family Foundation that examined media use by kids from 6 months to 6 years found that more than a quarter of children ages 4 to 6 use a computer during a typical day, and spend an average of 50 minutes at it.

Some visit sites such as PBSKids.org, where they can play games based on "Sesame Street" or "Curious George." NickJr.com has "Dora the Explorer" games. Slightly older kids get into virtual communities like Disney's Club Penguin, Webkinz or Kung Fu Panda World.


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Alicia Swanson watches over her 7-year-old son, Elliot Hooper, as he spends time online. (MCT photo / October 28, 2010)


"By and large, parents think computers are useful technology," says Ellen Wartella, a professor and media-use expert at Northwestern University who was an adviser for the Kaiser study. But even helpful technology must be used in moderation, Wartella says, because kids need to play with friends, get outdoors, read books and do homework — not just point and click.

So if computer use can be educational on the one hand, and potentially thwart kids' development on the other, what are parents supposed to do? Tips from the experts:


Keep it out in the open.


Keep the computer used by the kids in a public space, Wartella and other experts advise, so you can see what they're doing online. Research shows that kids with computers or TVs in their rooms spend more time on those activities than other kids, and that heavy media users generally have lower grades in school than light users.


Review Web sites.


Young kids learn about Web sites from friends and TV. Parents need to visit those sites before giving the OK. They should also help children understand that not everything they see or read online is true, and teach them the difference between advertisements and games or stories.


Kid-friendly browers.

Start your child's online exploration via kid-specific browsers like KidZui.com, where children can gain access only to sites, games, pictures and videos that have been approved by an editorial staff, or at home pages like Yahoo! Kids. Services such as Net Nanny (netnanny.com) allow parents to monitor their children's online activity and block unwelcome content. Parents can also set parameters on what kind of content kids can access by manipulating the "parental controls" on browsers such as Internet Explorer and Firefox (via add-on software).


Set guidelines.

Parents who allow kids to play in online communities should use the sites' online tools to regulate what kind of communicating can take place, says Caroline Knorr, parenting editor for Common Sense Media. The strictest chat settings usually allow kids to choose only from a limited menu of phrases, she says.

Linda Murray, editor-in-chief of parenting site BabyCenter, says parents should talk with the parents of their kids' friends to mutually enforce limits on media use. That's "so you don't get that 'Caitlin is allowed to play Club Penguin every day,'" she explains. ( latimes.com )


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Tips For A Broken Relationship


7 Breakup Tips For A Broken Relationship. When a relationship is on its last leg and a breakup is inevitable, who ends it? Recognizing that her habits have become annoying instead of cute is just the start. Her rude cell phone calls mid-meal, the way she thinks she's always right and her complete lack of respect for your opinion should all be sending you a clear message.

Relationships often go bad -- and stay that way. Even when both parties know that they would be happier with someone else, it's human nature to procrastinate about difficult decisions. So rather than riding inertia's wave, use these seven breakup tips for a broken relationship and move on.

1- Make her the first to know

Out of respect for her, never tell your friends you're going to break up before telling her it's over. It's a simple thing women consider sacred. The all too connected grapevine is not the place she should or deserves to be told that you're no longer interested. You could discuss some relationship problems you're having with your buddies, but your final decision to break up with her should remain private.

Use your judgment to decide which day would be best to break the news to her. If she's very emotional and you think that you'll break her heart, try to do it on a Friday. This will give her the weekend to recover and spend time with friends. But if she's the type to plow through full steam ahead, then perhaps Monday would be best. This will ensure that her busy workweek will keep her mind off the breakup and you.

Remember that there will be no "perfect time" to end the relationship. The best thing to do is set a random Monday or Friday to break up -- and stick to it.

2- Find a neutral zone

Our second point in our list of seven breakup tips for a broken relationship is for you to know and remember that it's not fair to end the relationship at your place, and neither should you be forced to see a picture on her fridge of you and her hugging. Try to find a neutral locale where both of you would be comfortable to express your feelings, like at a park. At least there you can walk and talk, or maybe even find a more secluded spot.

A restaurant, on the other hand, is a bad choice. If she makes a scene, there's no respectful recovery and no quick way out. However, fear of embarrassment is never a reason to leave her in the middle of nowhere. No matter how emotional and heated the conversation gets, there's no excuse for risking her safety or yours.

3- End it in person

If you've lost that loving feeling, be courteous and tell her face-to-face. Phone calls and e-mail are fine for small talk, but this is a big issue. It's natural to want as much distance as possible between you and her when you break the bad news, but in this case, fight your instincts and have the decency to say it to her face. The fact that you're reading our seven breakup tips for a broken relationship tells us that you're a bigger man than the guy who dials and dumps.

4- Keep it simple

There's no need to put her through the history of your decision to break up. She does deserve an explanation, but save her (and yourself) the long-winded reasons of exactly why and how things went sour. Be clear about the fact that you feel the relationship is at an end, but pepper that crystal-clear reality with a significant dose of regret.

It's important to let her know that the decision to split up is difficult for you too. By letting this be known, you make a soon-to-be-ex-girlfriend a friend in mutual sorrow. A few words to the wise: Don't say you're going to call if you're not going to. Part of keeping it simple also includes ending it smoothly -- be fair to both you and her.

If you're unclear about how you're ending it with her, it could result in a dragged out breakup. Don't break up in stages -- if you want to sever the ties, there's no time like the present.

5- Get her to see your point of view

Who can argue with logic? You're probably not the only one that's been feeling the relationship going downhill. A dose of reality might be just what the doctor ordered to get her to accept what it is you need to say -- and do -- about it. A good way to get her to understand why the two of you aren't best-suited for one another is through a simple example. But make sure you get her to start the ball rolling.

Ask her if she's been feeling the lag in your relationship. She'll probably have quite a few examples about why things haven't been working out. Letting her talk it through will help her see why you brought the topic up in the first place.

6- Don't change your mind

There's a big reason why you made the decision to confront her with the end of your relationship. She may argue, cry or even "not understand why you're doing this," but be sure and stick to your guns. There's nothing worse than a flip-flop relationship -- you're either in or you're out. So make sure you have rebuttals for all her potential comebacks.

7- Be ready for tears

Whether she's glad you said something or not, chances are tears will be shed. Ending a relationship can bring intense emotion and she's not about to save you from seeing it all pour out at once. When she does start to cry, be sympathetic but don't be drawn in by an overflow of powerful emotion. Be an emotional rock. If your new ex is the stoic type (saving her emotions for a later time when you're not around), don't try to cajole a reaction from her. Let her be and tell her that you're ready to talk when she is.

Make sure to have plans set with friends later that day. This will ensure that the breakup process isn't dragged on longer than necessary and that you're not alone if you feel bad about what just happened. Don't be one of those guys who wants to prove one last time that he cares by breaking off his plans with his friends; that's amateur stuff.

Know when to fold 'em

Ending a relationship is never easy. But having the courage to follow through with your decision will make both you and her happier when the relationship has already passed its "best before" date. Be true to your emotions and do what's best for you and her. ( askmen.com )


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Why can't I lose weight?


Why can't I lose weight?. According to a report by Mintel, at least one in six women is trying to lose weight. If you're losing the battle perhaps it's because of one of the reasons below:

1. Your upbringing Weight problems may be linked to whether you were breast or bottle-fed. According to German research, breastfed babies are less likely to be overweight as they get older.

This could be because they are fed on demand, establishing healthy eating habits, while bottle-fed babies tend to be fed when the mother decides it's time, so the baby may not actually be hungry.

'This could damage the baby's innate eating control ability,' says Dr Susan Jebb, head of nutrition health research at the Medical Research Council in Cambridge.

2. Lying about what you eat Research shows obese people under-report when asked to fill in a food diary. 'People who are overweight have a tendency to kid themselves that they don't eat more than anyone else,' says Dr Wendy Doyle of the British Dieticians Association.

She advises keeping a diary for a week, writing down everything you eat and drink. 'If you can force yourself to be honest, you will probably be surprised at the sheer quantity.'

If someone is obese, then they eat 2,500 calories per day just to stay at this weight. Once this amount is reduced, the weight should come off.

3. Insufficient sleep If you are not losing weight, it may simply be that you're exhausted. Rozalind Gruben, who runs health and nutrition company Health Unlimited, says: 'If you are feeling tired, the chances are you won't exercise, and will have little willpower to resist stimulating and fattening foods. In addition, an exhausted body is crippled in its ability to detoxify or release stored fat.' She advises that you listen to your body signals and try taking more rest.

4. A lack of muscle The more muscle you have, the higher your metabolic rate. Muscle burns 25-33pc more calories than fat.

The best way to increase your muscle mass is to do strength training. Beginners usually find it easiest to follow a course of exercises on machines in a gym. Later, you can follow a programme on your own at home using free weights or your own body weight for resistance. Ideally, you should strength train three times a week, targeting at least eight major muscle groups.

5. An underactive thyroid The job of the thyroid gland is to produce thyroxin, a hormone which can affect your metabolism.

The two most common types of problems that occur with the gland are overactive thyroids (hyperthyroidism) and underactive thyroids (hypothyroidism). It is the latter that can result in weight gain, as it decreases your metabolic rate by 5pc.

Other symptoms include a lack of energy, a slow heartbeat, dry thick skin and a puffy face. Once detected, it can be treated by a thyroid hormone drug which will restore your metabolism to its normal rate.

6. It's in your genes If you're worried that you are gradually growing into the figure of your mother, your fears may be justified.

According to James O. Hill, director of the Center for Human Nutrition at the University of Colorado in Denver: 'With genes, gender and hormones in common, mothers can often provide daughters with a fairly accurate map to their future shape.'

There are three main genetic body shapes or 'somatypes' - ectomorph (naturally long and lean), mesomorph (muscular frame) and endormorph (more rounded appearance).

'Genetically, everyone is dealt a pack of cards - but, ultimately, it's up to you how you play them,' explains nutritionist Penny Hunking. 'There is a lot you can do to counteract genetics - through sensible eating and exercise.'

7. You skip breakfast Studies show that people who eat breakfast are leaner than those who don't. Eating breakfast helps prevent high-fat snacking later in the day.

Penny Hunking recommends starting the day with some cereal and toast with low-fat spread and Marmite. Alternatively try mushrooms and tomatoes on toast, or yoghurt and fresh fruit.

'Eating a high-carbohydrate, low-fat breakfast will kick-start your metabolism and improve your concentration and performance later in the day,' says Hunking.

8. You have 'PCOS' Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) affects one in ten women. It gets its name from the tiny cysts that form on the ovaries. These are actually a symptom of the condition, not the cause, and are different to ovarian cysts.

Women with PCOS are often overweight and have problems losing weight, particularly around their middle. Other common symptoms include excess body hair, fatigue, period and fertility problems, breast pain and acne.

9. Worrying about weight Distress about being overweight can reduce your body's ability to shed unwanted pounds. Rozalind Gruben says long-term stress exhausts the adrenals. 'These glands produce cortisol and thyroxin, both of which are needed for the releasing of stored fat.'

10. Deficient in nutrients A lack of vital nutrients will result in less energy and, consequently, a greater predisposition to laying down fat. Essential vitamins and minerals for weight loss include B1, B2, B3, B6, C, iron, chromium, zinc and co-enzyme Q10.

'Ensuring that you have an adequate supply of these nutrients will increase the effectiveness of any weight loss programme,' says Patrick Holford, author of The Optimum Nutrition Bible. ( dailymail.co.uk )



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Rev up your sex life in winters


Rev up your sex life in winters. With the party season on full swing and the winter chill taking a toll on a couple's love life, finding new ways to spark up this lull is of utmost importance.

While it becomes hard for couples to keep up the pace of their sexual interaction, they often blame it on the frosty weather and fatigued minds and bodies as a justification for their 'not-tonight-honey' stand. But experts say blaming winter for poor libido is merely a myth, which couples need to break and enjoy their love life.

Dr. Rajan Bhonsle, an expert on sexual relations advocates, "Winters boost the level of sexual desire in most couples as they feel highly aroused. When partners' touch each other's warm bodies, it hypes up the sexual mood. This is not the case in summers, as bodies are perspiring and you don't feel like coming close too often."

One of the reasons for which couples relinquish their lovemaking time in winters could be attributed to the fact that they find it tough to cope up with the chill and thus find it uncomfortable to undress before slipping between the sheets.

Dr. Bhonsle elucidates, "Individuals usually cover up their bodies in winters to protect themselves from the biting cold. Thus it's not be too comfy to undress at one go. But if you are in the mood for some tenderness, you can always find ways to deal with the cold factor."

Establishing some medical instances, marriage and relationship counselor Dr. Kamal Khurana holds, "Winters are much more effective and relationship friendly. If couples make the most of the season, they can be more productive during sex. Besides, in winters, our digestive power increases as the body requires more carbohydrates. This results in a high intake of calorie-rich foods, like dry fruits, which are great aphrodisiacs making one more energised and attracted towards their partner."

Stating that weather can't play spoil sport in a couple's love life, Dr. Prakash Kothari, a sexologist and advisor for the World Association for Sexual Health reveals, "It's an individual choice that some couples get turned on in summers and others in winter season. Some odd couples may not feel comfortable to have sex in extreme cold, so they feel reluctant to make out, but we can't generalise and blame lack of sex on the weather. In fact, during winters when it's chilly outside, couples get an opportunity to spend more time inside the house and they can ideally spend some cosy moment with each other."

On a slightly different note, Geetanjali Sharma, a relationship counselor shares, "Seasons do affect our mind and body in different ways. Particularly in winters, 20 per cent of couples suffer from SAD – Seasonal Affect Disorder, which reduces their sex drive to a certain limit due to the depressive weather conditions. It's to do with the reduced day light during winters, which brings a change in our hormones and due to this there's a change in our sleep and waking patterns thus affecting our sex life. Also, since the days are shorter in winters, couples try and wind up more work in lesser time and thus feel stressed at the end of the day."

Furthermore, with social gatherings and parties happening frequently, couples tend to be more watchful about their eight hours of sound sleep
and thus end up bargaining on their love-making time. Dealing with the situation, Dr. Khurana opines, "Firstly, couples must understand that sex doesn't require any time scheduling. Just like going out for parties, sexual activity is a basic need; a reflection of one's emotional compatibility. If they go by the formula of not having sex in the party season, then they won't come close to each other for nearly half of the year."


In the cold weather, modern couples still find themselves in a fix to schedule their intimate moments. It's often their work pressure, party hangovers or personal preferences that result in a dull and boring performance in bed. Here are some tips to add a punch to your sex life, during winters...

Here are some tips to pep up your sex life in winters...

Rev up your sex life in winters

Hot food for hot action :
Aphrodisiacs can do the trick during any season, but especially in winters, take special care of what you eat to enhance your sexual prowess. Opt for hot items like soups, grilled fish or dry fruits that can set the mood right for quality sex by adding more warmth to your body.


Build up the right aura :
In summers, you may opt for a spa setting or a chilled shower to evoke your senses. But in winters, let the ambiance be warmer and full of light. While lit-up candles and aroma oils add to the warmth of the room, cosy quilts and soft blankets can do the magic as you slip between the sheets.


Dress to undress :
Since you're already dressed skimpily during summers, there's barely any chance to get creative and play around with your partner's moan zones. The winter season gives you all the reasons to get dressed up as much as you can and then allow your lover to take the privilege to undress you gradually. Just guessing what lies under the layers of warm clothing adds to the curiosity levels and the mood of anticipation.


Set the midnight clock :
Don't have sex just for the sake of it or just because your partner wants it to happen. Communicate that you're tired on a particular night and then plan out another specific time, maybe after midnight, when you can get up half asleep yet fully charged up and enjoy some pleasurable moments with full passion.


A hot shower to freshen up : Whenever you come back tired from a late night party, feeling sleepy, don't let your worn-out souls act as a libido killer. Try something like a hot shower to feel rejuvenated again. Let your partner's tender touch be felt on your body for a while and as you progress towards the bedroom, let romance take over.

No stress, only sex :
Coping with work pressure and coming back home with a pre-occupied mind is a complete recipe for disaster in bed. So, willfully indulge in activities that help in relieving unnecessary anxiety. Laughing, going out, meeting people and remaining connected will make you feel fresh throughout the day and thus you can reserve a night which is full of love and romance.


Comfort with artificial heating :
If your partner is not at ease with the chilly weather and is not in a mood to undress, resort to options like artificial heating devices. With technological advancements, you can even set the room temperature in accordance with your bodies. Or opt for a quickie. It's short, quick and you don't necessarily need to undress.


Foreplay is important :
Foreplay is more exciting than the main act, so get adventurous and indulge in some prolonged foreplay, sans any 'sex'. Get creative in your approach.
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Helicopter Parents on the Job Search


Helicopter Parents on the Job Search. If you are a parent of a young adult, you could be earning a nickname you've never heard of: "helicopter parent." These parents tend to "hover" over their Generation Y child's life more fully than any generation before.

As technology has evolved, cell phones and PDAs have enabled a far greater level of parental vigilance. University of Georgia professor Richard Mullendore has referred to the cell phone as "the world's longest umbilical cord."

And the impact is far-reaching. Employers are reporting instances where helicopter parents have been involved in their child's first job search. In some cases, hiring managers were shocked and surprised at how significantly the parent became involved in the process.



Helicopter parents overhead

Gwen Martin is the co-founder of NumberWorks LLC, an accounting and finance staffing firm based in Minneapolis. Martin says that about one in every six interactions she has regarding job openings is from a helicopter parent.

"We had one mother who called us to see what positions we had open and to talk about her son's educational background and job experience." Martin recalls. As a hiring manager, Martin would hope that the candidates make those calls on their own behalf. "Her son was finishing his last class before graduation and was too busy to make the call himself."

Eileen Habelow is a regional vice president and director for the staffing firm Randstad USA. She's also had some eye-opening experiences with the parents of young job seekers. Habelow remembers one candidate who seemed ideal in many ways -- except one.

"During the interview process, the candidate continuously referenced her parents, their roles in her search, their support in evaluating us as an employer and a financially stable company, and their advice on how she should negotiate the employment deal," Habelow recalls.

That level of parental involvement raised some red flags. "She was a very sharp candidate: polished, smart, well-educated and confident. However, the constant reference to mom and dad was a definite turnoff," Habelow states.

The company hired the candidate, but Habelow soon regretted that decision. "After three months she let us know that her parents agreed that maybe this was not the best fit after all. I will trust my instincts next time."

Working with helicopter parents

Some hiring professionals are beginning to embrace helicopter parents. "Basically, the helicopter parents are here and savvy companies are catering to them," says Lisa Orrell, author of "Millennials Incorporated" and consultant to companies that recruit and employ younger workers. "I tell clients they can scoff at this or deal with it. If a key factor to wooing the candidate is getting their parents' buy-in, then create ideas to woo the parents, too."

Orrell thinks that companies need to modify traditional approaches and ideas when it comes to recruiting Millennial, or "Gen Y," employees. "Companies really need to understand that Gen Y is very close to their parents and value their opinions when it comes to a job," she notes. "I know of companies who conduct family days, where Gen Y candidates can bring their parents to the company for a tour and to meet key personnel."

A balanced approach

Too much parental involvement can be a detriment to your child's job search. Recruiters and hiring managers can view "hovering" as a negative. They may believe that the candidate isn't independent or lacks initiative.

An ideal role for parents is that of mentor. You should share tips on workplace behavior, like dealing with office politics and accepting constructive criticism. But don't shadow your son or daughter through his or her search process. Since current trends indicate workers are changing jobs every few years, they will benefit more in the long run from learning sound job searching skills.

Here are some possible pitfalls where you may be tempted to act on your child's behalf, as well as alternate courses of action.

If you're tempted to write your child's résumé...

Plan of action: You can provide guidance by sharing your own résumé. There are also resources online, like CBResume.com, where job seekers can get help creating new résumés or review existing ones.

If you're tempted to organize your child's job search...

Plan of action: Guide your child to resources that can help her plan and organize her job search. She can register for a free account on CareerBuilder.com, upload a résumé and set up job alerts. Offer to give her ideas for searching, but allow her to seek out opportunities on her own.

If you're tempted to call the employer...

Plan of action: If your child is reluctant to make a follow-up call after an interview or résumé submission, find out why. If he feels unprepared, engage him in some brainstorming and help him identify possible responses to the questions he would most likely be asked.

If you're tempted to go on the interview...

Plan of action: Offer to be a chauffeur to the interview, so your son or daughter doesn't need to focus on parking or other logistics. Stage a mock interview prior to the real one and offer constructive feedback to your child's answers. Acknowledge their good instincts and work with them to identify areas for improvement.( msn.com )



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Finding Work After the Military


Finding Work After the Military. Men and women who leave the military might put dangerous missions behind them, but they face a host of other challenges when they return to civilian life. In addition to adapting to a comparatively calm daily routine and dealing with other effects of service, military leavers have to find work with a new employer.

With 23.7 million veterans in the country and 11.1 million of them under the age of 65 in the work force, according to the U.S. Census Bureau, these men and women comprise a large portion of workers.

"The key to success, as a veteran, in finding your feet when you return to the civilian environment is to understand yourself: who you are, what you value, where you can improve yourself," says Ken Betterton, a government and military consultant. "There are some simple tests you can take to establish your psychological preferences."

Your next step is to decide if you want to continue down the career path you began in the military or if you want to make a switch.

"If your current path in the military lights the passion in you and you are experiencing pleasure and growth instead of pain and chaos, stick with it. But if not, don't be afraid to step outside the box and discover careers in new and different fields," Betterton advises.



Where the jobs are

As more men and women in the service return from their tours of duty, trends have begun to emerge signaling industries that make for easy transitions to the work force.

Military personnel who have experience driving large vehicles in the service are finding work as truck drivers. Companies like Con-way Truckload are actively working with the Department of Veteran Affairs to recruit active and post-service military personnel to the company.

Police departments are welcoming veterans, too, according to Betterton. In the military, you learn to work as a team, endure physical obstacles and develop strategies -- all assets to police work.

Plenty of service experience lays the groundwork for a consulting position. Scott Laliberte, a former information systems security officer for the Coast Guard, is now an expert on data security and managing director for Protiviti, a consulting and internal audit firm. After all, military personnel often have access to some of the world's most sophisticated technology before anyone else, so they would be the authorities on how to use it.

Other veterans capitalize on the soft skills they learned in the service rather than on their specific duties and become entrepreneurs. The discipline and leadership qualities they developed give them a base to be their own bosses, as long as they have some business know-how, of course.

Pizza chain Little Caesars offers discounts and training to veterans to franchise their own locations. Honorably discharged after five years of service, Steve Yoho decided to leave his work in the auto industry to have his own business.

He's just one of several following this trend.

Stacie Rine, a retired Navy combat pilot, depended on massage therapy in her most challenging moments, so she started her own Massage Heights franchise. Debi and Rick Lajti, both Air Force veterans, opened a TSS Photography franchise.

How to make the change

Wendy Enelow, author of "Expert Résumés for Military-to-Civilian Transitions," has some suggestions for veterans entering the work force:

1. If you do want to continue down the career path you've already begun, itemize your skills so that you can look for related work.

"Military personnel must clearly understand the skills and knowledge they have and where the opportunities exist in the civilian marketplace for individuals with their particular skill sets," Enelow says. Once you've done this, you can target your job search to the right employers.

2. Translate your experience for employers by using terms and descriptions relevant to their needs. Like any other job seeker, you can't expect the hiring manager to do the work for you.

Enelow suggests translating military ranks into job titles that make sense to them. "Don't use the names of specific military technologies which mean nothing outside of that realm; rather, talk about advanced electronics technologies. Don't make people have to study the résumé to understand; spell it out."

3. Use keywords that appeal to hiring managers to get your résumé noticed. "Command and control" won't help you get hired, but "advanced communications technologies" will, Enelow says. ( msn.com )



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Ten Things that Scream, "Don't Hire Me!"


Ten Things that Scream, "Don't Hire Me!". You just don't get it. You've applied to numerous jobs, been to countless interviews and made several new contacts in your network -- yet here you are -- still sitting on the unemployment list. What gives?

Well ... have you ever stopped to consider that what gives might in fact be ... you?

It's a hard concept that most job seekers have trouble wrapping their heads around, but applicants frequently -- inadvertently -- raise red flags to hiring managers that immediately scream, "Don't hire me!" But, it might not be entirely your fault.

"Most companies don't give direct feedback about areas people are weak in while they are employed. They are enabling poor performance and lack of accountability," says Tom Gimbel, president and CEO of The LaSalle Network, an executive recruiting firm in Chicago. "The same mentality exists when people interview. They feel they did 'great' on the interview and never look at themselves for if they feel that the interviewer was looking for something different."

Not sure if you're unknowingly blowing your chances at scoring your dream job? Here are 10 red flags to be wary of during your next job hunt:




Red flag No. 1: You don't have any contact information on your résumé

When you're crafting your résumé, you should focus on highlighting relevant skills and accomplishments that are in line with the position for which you are applying. But what good is an impressive résumé if hiring managers have no way to get in touch with its owner? If they can't find you, they can't hire you. Always provide a home address, phone number or e-mail address so employers can get in touch with you easily.

Red flag No. 2: You have long gaps between jobs on your résumé

Even if your long departure from the work force is valid, extended lapses of unemployment might say to an employer, "Why weren't you wanted by anyone?" Gimbel says. Anytime you have more than a three-month gap of idleness on your résumé, legitimate or otherwise, be prepared to explain yourself.

Red flag No. 3: You aren't prepared for the interview

There are many ways to be unprepared for an interview: You haven't researched the company, you don't have any questions prepared, you didn't bring a copy of your résumé, etc. Plain and simple, do your homework before an interview. Explore the company online, prepare answers to questions and have someone give you a mock interview. The more prepared you are, the more employers will take you seriously.

Red flag No. 4: You didn't provide any references

By omitting references in your application, employers could infer that you don't know anyone who has any positive things to say about you -- when in fact, you just forgot to provide them with people who can vouch for you. No references also shows employers that you aren't prepared for people to call them, Gimbel says. Always make sure the hiring manager has at least one person to contact who can speak on your behalf.

Red flag No. 5: You only have negative things to say about previous employment

We know how tempting it is to want to tell anyone who will listen how much of a (insert expletive word here) your old boss was -- but a hiring manager for a coveted job is not that person.

There are hundreds of ways to turn negative things about an old job into positives. Thought your last job was a dead end? Spin it by saying, "I felt I had gone as far as I could go in that position. I'm looking for something with more opportunity for advancement." Couldn't get along with your co-workers? "I really need to work in an environment where I feel like I'm part of a team and my last position didn't allow for that kind of atmosphere."

Red flag No. 6: You've held seven different jobs -- in the past six months

Job hopping is a new trend in the working world. Workers are no longer staying in a job for 10-20 years; they stay for a couple and move on to the next one. While such a tactic can further your career, switching jobs too often will raise a prospective employer's antenna. Too many jobs in too little time tells employers that either you can't hold a job or you have no loyalty, Gimbel says. Pick and choose the jobs you include on your résumé or prepare to explain yourself.

Red flag No. 7: You give inconsistent answers in your interview

One tactic hiring managers use during the hiring process is to ask you the same question in several different ways. This is mostly to ensure that you're genuine with your answers and not just telling an employer what he or she wants to hear. Keep your responses sincere throughout the entire process and you should be good to go.

Red flag No. 8: You lack flexibility

Most people know what they want in a job as far as benefits, compensation, time-off, etc. If you're unable to be flexible with some of your (unrealistic?) expectations, however, you're going to have a difficult time finding a job. Have a bottom line in terms of what you want before you start the hiring process and be willing to bend a bit if necessary.

Red flag No. 9: Your application was, in a word -- lazy

Only doing the bare minimum of what's asked of you won't get very far -- in life or in your job search. Applying to jobs with the same résumé and the same cover letter (or none at all) is pure laziness. And as Gimbel points out, if you won't spend extra time on yourself and your application materials, you sure as heck won't do it for a client.

Red flag No. 10: You lack objective or ambition

If you have no long-term goals, then you really have no short-term goals either, Gimbel says. "Long-term goals may change, however you need to have some concept of where you want to go." Know where you want to go and how you plan to get there. Otherwise you seem unfocused and unmotivated, which are two big no-no's for an applicant. ( msn.com )



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Unseen Jobs


Unseen Jobs. In the book "The World Without Us," Alan Weisman hypothesizes what would happen to Earth if humans suddenly disappeared. We would leave behind skyscrapers, roads and pollution. Two days after human disappearance, Weisman speculates, the New York subways would flood because no crew would be underground pumping water out of the tunnels. Skyscrapers would eventually crumble to the ground without someone to keep steel from rusting and bolts from loosening.

Millions of workers are responsible for making our daily lives run smoothly. From the things we can't live without, like clean streets and transportation, to the luxuries that make our days bearable, such as prepared meals, we have a lot of people to thank. Here are just some of the unseen workers helping you throughout the day.


6:30 a.m. -- Alarm rings

Who: Electrical line installers and repairers

The annoying buzz that wakes you up each the morning can happen only because you have electricity running through the wires in your home. Electrical power-line installers and repairers get power from electric plants to your home.

7:15 a.m. -- Grab your morning bagel

Who: Maintenance workers, bakers

While you stand in line at the coffee shop to get your morning jolt and a bagel, take a glance up at the ceiling. Someone had to change the light bulbs in the fixtures at the crack of dawn so you wouldn't be standing there in the dark. Another person was up early baking pastries for the rush of morning customers.

7:35 a.m. -- Catch the bus

Who: Vehicle maintenance workers

So the bus is late and you're standing with someone's armpit in your face because, as always, there are more riders than seats. Still, you're getting to work (almost) on time because the bus has good tires and a working engine that is checked regularly.

8:00 a.m. -- Sit down at your desk

Who: Building cleaning workers

If your coffee still hasn't taken effect, you might be cranky and not thinking clearly. So you probably sulked down the hall, to your desk, unaware that the walkway is clear and free of trash. Last night after you left, a cleaning crew had to pick up the balled up candy wrapper you poorly tossed at the trash and tidy up the snack room and restrooms.

12:00 p.m. -- Order lunch

Who: Fishers

At lunch, your boss orders the catch of the day. That means the salmon isn't a processed fishstick that came in a box and was thrown in the deep fryer. The chef had to go down to the market and select the freshest available fish, which someone caught and put on ice.

2:15 p.m. -- Have a meeting

Who: Tree trimmers

You're bored out of your mind in a conference room, looking out the window at a city employee who trims the trees lining streets. Without these workers, cars and buses would be knocking unkempt branches into the roads and onto sidewalks.

5:45 p.m. -- Pick up the mail

Who: Mail sorters, processors and processing machine operators

You grab your mail as you walk into your home. Even though you toss the bills on the table and choose to read the latest issue of your favorite magazine, you're glad your letters and credit card statements got to you. Postal workers get the mail from the trucks into the machines that sort your correspondences and hand them over to the letter carriers.

11:30 p.m. -- You're snoring

Who: Street sanitation crew

While you dream about the fun you'll have this weekend, a street sanitation truck roars down your block to get the discarded cigarette butts and mysterious stray shoe off the road before morning rush hour.

5:00 a.m. -- You pretend you're not awake

Who: Journalists, newspaper editors, printers, drivers

You woke up to use the restroom and now you can't fall back asleep. Still, with 90 minutes left until the alarm rings, you won't budge from that bed. Meanwhile, a delivery person is putting your newspaper at your front door. To make that newspaper happen, reporters had to file stories, editors cleaned them up, printers ran them and someone else put them on the truck to deliver to businesses and subscribers. ( msn.com )



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