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10-year-old Mexican girl gives birth to baby boy after 31-week pregnancy


10-year-old Mexican girl gives birth to baby boy after 31-week pregnancy - Country's laws prohibit abortion procedures for children under 12

A 10-year-old Mexican girl has given birth to a baby boy after a 31-week pregnancy, according to reports.

The premature infant, which weighed 3.3 pounds, was born by Caesarian section at the Women’s Hospital in the city of Puebla and is in the intensive care unit recovering from pneumonia.

The young mother, who is from the nearby San Francisco Totimehuacan community, has returned home after the procedure but visits the baby every day to breastfeed, officials said.

The Puebla state Attorney General's Office is now investigating whether the girl could have been raped and who the father is, the hospital’s director Rogelio Gonzalez said, according to UpFrontNewswire.


 
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Mexican state laws say young moms are unable to have abortions unless a girl can prove she was the victim of sexual assault.

The state’s minimum age of consent is 12 and women who undergo abortions in Puebla face a fine or prison sentence if they are unable to prove they were sexually abused.

The laws are currently under review.

The girl, who has not been named, arrived at the medical facility on Oct. 22, suffering from life-threatening complications, including seizures.

Hospital officials said the newborn is in a good condition considering his premature birth and the mother is recovering well.

This is not the first case of a shockingly young girl giving birth in Mexico.

In August last year, 11-year-old Amalia had a child two weeks premature after she was denied an abortion by the local Justice Department during the fourth month of pregnancy.

She was raped repeatedly by her stepfather when she was 10 years old, but local laws do not allow terminations after three months. ( nydailynews.com )

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UK Teen Eats Chicken Nuggets for 15 Years, Nothing Else


UK Teen Eats Chicken Nuggets for 15 Years, Nothing Else - We all may be guilty of overindulging in our favorite food every now and then. But it seems like one British teen has taken her single food addiction to a whole new level.

Stacey Irvine, 17, of Castle Vale, Birmingham, loves eating McDonald's Chicken McNuggets. So much so, in fact, that it's been her main-choice meal for the past 15 years, according to a report written by the U.K.'s Daily Mail.

Early this week, Irvine was rushed to the hospital because her body was depleted of necessary vitamins and minerals, the Daily Mail reported. Irvine, a factory worker, told the Daily Mail that she has never eaten fruits or vegetables.


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While many psychiatrists label food addiction or even picky eating as mental health disorders, it is not found in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for Mental Health Disorders.

"This is pretty uncommon," said Dr. Sue Varma, a psychiatrist at NYU Langone school of medicine. "Usually, when we see food addiction, we see overconsumption of food and not limiting to one food."

Ever since Irvine was introduced to Chicken McNuggets by her mother when she was only two years old, she's been hooked, she told the Daily Mail.

"I just couldn't face even trying other foods. Mum gave up giving me anything else years ago," Irvine told the Daily Mail.

Varma said that Irvine's restriction to one food may be a symptom of a larger psychological issue.

"Some people with neurological and developmental conditions prefer a limited range of food," said Varma. "In general, it might have to do with feeling comfortable in being restricted in range."

Irvine said she's tried other meals, but nothing is as delicious to her as the nuggets - any brand, really.

Chicken nuggets are considered comfort food for many because of the high carbohydrate intake and their fried taste.

Overindulgence of comfort foods may be a sign of depression and anxiety, according to Varma.

"You see it in younger kids with separation anxiety," said Varma. "Someone restricting to this extent should be evaluated for physical deficiency and cognitive development."

While it's unclear what role the family has had in Irvine's situation, in cases like this, Varma said, it's even more important for families to be involved in the recovery.

"In a lot of disorders with children, kids need their own therapy, but families need therapy too," she said. "Realize that just the way you would take your child to pediatrician, going to a mental health physicians is the same and just as important." ( abc news )

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Hard-line Indonesian police shave punkers' mohawks


Hard-line Indonesian police shave punkers' mohawks — Police in Indonesia's most conservative province raided a punk-rock concert and detained 65 fans, buzzing off their spiky mohawks and stripping away body piercings because of the perceived threat to Islamic values.

Dog-collar necklaces and chains also were taken from the youths before they were thrown in pools of water for "spiritual" cleansing, local police chief Iskandar Hasan said Wednesday.

After replacing their "disgusting" clothes, he handed each a toothbrush and barked "use it."

The crackdown marked the latest effort by authorities to promote strict moral values in Aceh, the only province in this secular but predominantly Muslim nation of 240 million to have imposed Islamic laws.


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In this Tuesday, Dec. 13, 2011 photo, punks sit inside a pool in a police school compound after their heads were shaved in Aceh Besar, Aceh province, Indonesia. Police official Iskandar Hasan said Wednesday, Dec. 14 that 65 youths were rounded up during a weekend concert and brought to a detention center where their spiky mohawks - deemed insulting to Islamic traditions - were buzzed off. (AP Photo)

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In this Tuesday, Dec. 13, 2011 photo, punks sit inside a pool in a police school compound after their heads were shaved in Aceh Besar, Aceh province, Indonesia. Police official Iskandar Hasan said Wednesday, Dec. 14 that 65 youths were rounded up during a weekend concert and brought to a detention center where their spiky mohawks - deemed insulting to Islamic traditions - were buzzed off. (AP Photo)

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In this Tuesday, Dec. 13, 2011 photo, plain-clothed police officers shave the heads of punks at a police school compound in Aceh Besar, Aceh province, Indonesia. Police official Iskandar Hasan said Wednesday, Dec. 14 that 65 youths were rounded up during a weekend concert and brought to a detention center where their spiky mohawks - deemed insulting to Islamic traditions - were buzzed off. (AP Photo)

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REFILE - CORRECTING DATE Police shave the head of a detained youth at a police school in Aceh Besar of the Indonesia's Aceh province December 13, 2011. Police detained about 65 youth punks from different areas in Aceh Besar when they attended a rock music show on Sunday. Picture taken December 13, 2011. REUTERS/Stringer (INDONESIA - Tags: RELIGION SOCIETY TPX IMAGES OF THE DAY)


Here, adultery is punishable by stoning to death. Homosexuals have been thrown in jail or lashed in public with rattan canes. Women are forced to wear headscarves and told, please, no tight pants.

It's not clear why police decided to hone in on punks.

Though pierced and tattooed teens have complained for months about harassment, Saturday's roundup at a concert attended by more than 100 people was by far the biggest and most dramatic bust yet.

Baton-wielding police scattered fans, many of whom had traveled from other parts of the sprawling archipelagic nation to attend the show.

Hasan said 59 young men and five women were loaded into vans and brought to a police detention center 30 miles (60 kilometers) from the provincial capital, Banda Aceh.

They would spend 10 days getting rehabilitation, training in military-style discipline and religious classes, including Quran recitation, he said. Afterward, they'll be sent home.

Twenty-year-old punker, Fauzan, was mortified.

"Why? Why my hair?!" he said, pointing to his cleanly shaven head. "We didn't hurt anyone. This is how we've chosen to express ourselves. Why are they treating us like criminals?"

The women, some in tears, were given short, blunt bobs.

Hasan insisted he'd done nothing wrong.

"We're not torturing anyone," the police chief said. "We're not violating human rights. We're just trying to put them back on the right moral path."

However, Nur Kholis, a national human commissioner, deplored the detentions, saying police have to explain what kinds of criminal laws have been broken.

"Otherwise, they violated people's right of gathering and expression," Kholis said, promising to investigate.

Aceh — where Islam first arrived in Indonesia from Saudi Arabia centuries ago — enjoys semiautonomy from the central government.

That was part of a peace deal negotiated after the 2004 tsunami that killed 170,000 people in the province convinced both separatist rebels and the army to lay down their arms. Neither side wanted to add to people's suffering.

Some local governments in other parts of the country — which has seen tremendous changes with lighting-speed economic growth and modernization since the ouster of longtime dictator Suharto one decade ago — also have tried to ban "immoral" behavior, like drinking alcohol, gambling and kissing in public.

They've met with limited success, however, largely because most of the country's 200 million Muslims practice moderate forms of the faith. ( Associated Press )

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US teen cigarette, alcohol use falls


US teen cigarette, alcohol use falls - Cigarette and alcohol use by US teenagers are at their lowest point since the mid-1970s, but marijuana use remains steady, according to the findings of a national survey released Wednesday.

Some 18.7 percent of grade 12 high school students, typically aged 17 or 18, reported smoking cigarettes in the latest Monitoring the Future, well down from a peak of 36.5 percent in 1997.

Among eighth-grade pupils, the proportion of smokers was 6.1 percent, down from 21 percent in 1996, the classroom survey of 46,773 students from 400 schools indicated.


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A smoker holds a cigarette in May in San Francisco, California. Cigarette and alcohol use by US teenagers are at their lowest point since the mid-1970s, but marijuana use remains steady, according to the findings of a national survey released Wednesday. (AFP Photo/Justin Sullivan)


"That cigarette use has declined to historically low rates is welcome news, given our concerns that declines have slowed or stalled in recent years," said Nora Volkow of the National Institute on Drug Abuse, which funded the survey.

Some 63.5 percent of 12th graders and 26.9 percent of eighth graders consumed alcohol in the past year, down from peaks of 74.8 percent in 1997 and 46.8 percent in 1994 respectively.

Binge drinking, defined as five or more drinks in a row in the fortnight prior to taking the survey, saw a five-year decrease, reported by 6.4 percent of eighth graders, 14.7 percent of 10th graders and 21.6 percent of 12th graders.

On the other hand, use of marijuana "remains steady" after some increases in recent years, with 36.4 percent of 12th graders having used it once in the past year, and 6.6 percent on a daily basis.

Some 11.4 percent of 12th graders said they had used synthetic marijuana, known as K2 or spice.

Launched in 1975, Monitoring the Future is among three major surveys sponsored by federal health officials to take stock of substance abuse among American teenagers. ( AFP )

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Teen Sex May Affect Brain Development


Teen Sex May Affect Brain Development, Study Suggests - The uproar that followed a November episode of Fox's "Glee" in which two teen couples had sex for the first time may have some scientific legs. New research shows sex during the adolescent years could affect mood and brain development into adulthood.

The study, which was carried out on hamsters, reveals how social experiences during adolescence when the brain is still developing can have broad consequences, say the researchers from Ohio State University College of Medicine.

Specifically, the animals that mated earlier in life had higher levels of depressive behaviors, changes to the brain and smaller reproductive tissues compared to those that had intercourse later or not at all.

"Having a sexual experience during this time point, early in life, is not without consequence," study co-author John Morris, a doctoral student in psychology at Ohio State, said in a statement.

Morris and his colleagues cautioned, however, that the study should not be used to promote teenage abstinence, as they noted the research was carried out on hamsters and it isn't certain the same conclusion will hold for humans. As such, more research is needed understand the effects of sex during puberty.

The study, which was presented on Nov. 15 at the Society for Neuroscience annual meeting, has yet to be peer-reviewed for acceptance in a scientific journal.


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Testing the effects of sex

The researchers had a group of 40-day-old male hamsters (the equivalent of human teens) mate with adult females in heat. A second group of males mated in adulthood (80 days into life), while a control group was not exposed to females. Hamsters reach puberty at 21 days, and by 40 days have reached late- to post-adolescence, roughly equivalent to ages 16 to 20 in humans, said study researcher Randy Nelson, neuroscience professor and chair at Ohio State.

Researchers did various tests on the hamsters at 120 days.

When placed in water, the animals that had sex at 40 days were more likely to stop swimming vigorously, a symptom of depression, than the other three groups. All of the sexually active hamsters showed higher levels of anxiety, measured by willingness to explore a maze, than the virgin hamsters.

The group that had sex in adolescence also showed less complexity in the brain's dendrites, thebranching extensions of neurons that receive messages from other nerve cells, and higher expression of a gene associated with inflammation. Certain reproductive tissues, including the seminal vesicles (glands in males that secrete ejaculate) and vas deferens (tube that carries sperm out of the testes), were also smaller in these animals. [5 Myths About the Male Body]

The 40-day group also showed some benefits of early life sexual experience, the researchers said, including reduced body mass and enhanced immune responses in adulthood.

Hormones plus experience

"We used the opportunity to have sex, which naturally increases testosterone levels, to see whether these experiences during early life would have long-term consequence," co-author Zachary Weil, a research assistant professor of neuroscience at Ohio State, told LiveScience. "Previous animal studies have shown that experiences and sex hormones when administered early in life have long-term consequences for physiology, brain and behavior."

The researchers based their study on work by Cheryl Sisk at Michigan State University that showed that, in rodents, the elevated testosterone levels in puberty influence the development of brain circuits that underlie male social behaviors. In Sisk's study, castrated hamsters were less likely to mate with receptive females and were more submissive toward male intruders compared with males that had natural levels of testosterone. Replacing the hormone in adulthood did not restore normal levels of these social behaviors.

"We think that pubertal testosterone organizes neural circuits during adolescence in a way that maximizes male-typical social responses and behaviors in adulthood," said Sisk, who was not involved in the current study. She added that testosterone may be linked to structural changes in the brain, including how the dendrites are organized or connected to one another.

Weil's team is now researching whether testosterone is the sole mechanism. In a new study, the animals will be given the hormone rather than allowed to mate.

Sisk said she believes that a combination of hormones and experiences affect brain development during puberty and adolescence. "In humans, these two variables are hard to tease apart, because the elevated hormone levels that are typical of puberty lead to the appearance of secondary sex characteristics, which in turn changes the nature of interactions with parents, peers and teachers," she said.

Implications for teen sex

In response to the "virgin sex" on "Glee," the Parents Television Council, a watchdog group, denounced the episode in a statement before it aired, saying,"The fact that 'Glee' intends to ... celebrate children having sex is reprehensible." While the new study can't argue for or against this statement, its results suggest more discussion is needed on how early experiences impact adulthood, the researchers say.

"These results are very preliminary and should be used only to stimulate discussion about the role of early life experiences in humans in a general way," Weil said.

Thirteen percent of 15-year-olds in the U.S. have had heterosexual sex, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, and the average age for first-time intercourse is 17 — well within the equivalent age for the new study. "There is previous evidence that the age of first sexual experiences correlates with mental health issues in humans," Weil said. "But with all human research, there are a number of other variables involved, such as parental supervision and socioeconomic status, that may be involved with both the age of first experience and depression." [10 Surprising Sex Statistics]

Although his team's work may be useful in beginning to understand the physical and mental health outcomes of adolescent sex in humans, Weil said the key finding of the study is that experience during adolescence, when the brain is still developing, can have long-term effects on health and behavior. He cautioned against direct correlations with humans.

"In no way do these data bear directly on the issue of teenage abstinence," Weil stressed. "Much more research needs to be done in both human and animal models to understand how these types of experiences translate into changes in mood and physiology."

Weil said the data does, however, indicate how potentially damaging neglect and abuse of young people can be, in which both heightened hormones and negative experiences are at work. ( foxnews.com )

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Young kids and computers


Young kids and computers -Parents grapple with how much online time is too much for very young children.

There have been plenty of research and philosophizing about preteens' and teenagers' use of computers. But very young children are also logging time with the mouse and keyboard, and parents are grappling with how much is too much.

A 2006 study by the Kaiser Family Foundation that examined media use by kids from 6 months to 6 years found that more than a quarter of children ages 4 to 6 use a computer during a typical day, and spend an average of 50 minutes at it.

Some visit sites such as PBSKids.org, where they can play games based on "Sesame Street" or "Curious George." NickJr.com has "Dora the Explorer" games. Slightly older kids get into virtual communities like Disney's Club Penguin, Webkinz or Kung Fu Panda World.


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Alicia Swanson watches over her 7-year-old son, Elliot Hooper, as he spends time online. (MCT photo / October 28, 2010)


"By and large, parents think computers are useful technology," says Ellen Wartella, a professor and media-use expert at Northwestern University who was an adviser for the Kaiser study. But even helpful technology must be used in moderation, Wartella says, because kids need to play with friends, get outdoors, read books and do homework — not just point and click.

So if computer use can be educational on the one hand, and potentially thwart kids' development on the other, what are parents supposed to do? Tips from the experts:


Keep it out in the open.


Keep the computer used by the kids in a public space, Wartella and other experts advise, so you can see what they're doing online. Research shows that kids with computers or TVs in their rooms spend more time on those activities than other kids, and that heavy media users generally have lower grades in school than light users.


Review Web sites.


Young kids learn about Web sites from friends and TV. Parents need to visit those sites before giving the OK. They should also help children understand that not everything they see or read online is true, and teach them the difference between advertisements and games or stories.


Kid-friendly browers.

Start your child's online exploration via kid-specific browsers like KidZui.com, where children can gain access only to sites, games, pictures and videos that have been approved by an editorial staff, or at home pages like Yahoo! Kids. Services such as Net Nanny (netnanny.com) allow parents to monitor their children's online activity and block unwelcome content. Parents can also set parameters on what kind of content kids can access by manipulating the "parental controls" on browsers such as Internet Explorer and Firefox (via add-on software).


Set guidelines.

Parents who allow kids to play in online communities should use the sites' online tools to regulate what kind of communicating can take place, says Caroline Knorr, parenting editor for Common Sense Media. The strictest chat settings usually allow kids to choose only from a limited menu of phrases, she says.

Linda Murray, editor-in-chief of parenting site BabyCenter, says parents should talk with the parents of their kids' friends to mutually enforce limits on media use. That's "so you don't get that 'Caitlin is allowed to play Club Penguin every day,'" she explains. ( latimes.com )


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Hollywood-Style Special Effects Give Girl New Ear


Hollywood-Style Special Effects Give Girl New Ear – Elise never let her friends see what was left of her ear.

She'd carefully style her long hair into a one-sided ponytail, or swelter under a swim cap for hours at meets, to cover the molten lump from a severe burn as a toddler in her native China.

But as a teenager, the North Carolina girl expressed her desire to be whole again with a simple request: She really wanted pierced earrings. Thus began a months-long quest for a new right ear, one made of silicone but so lifelike that it even glows a bit in the sun like real skin.


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In this Wednesday, Nov. 24, 2010, photo Elise Lutz looks into a mirror and admires her new prosthetic ear at the Anaplastology Clinic in Durham, N.C. "It kind of took forever, but it was worth it," says Elise, 14, as she headed to show her transformation to her dad and sisters. "I'm so excited, I'm more than 100 excited." (AP Photo/Gerry Broome)


Elise benefited from a little known field called anaplastology, where medical artists make Hollywood-like special effects come alive to fix disfigurements that standard plastic surgery cannot.

"It kind of took forever, but it was worth it," says Elise, 14, as she headed to show her transformation to her dad and sisters. "I'm so excited, I'm more than 100 excited."

No messy glue-on prosthetic that she might accidentally knock off. Elise had tried that once and hated it. This time, she would go under the knife to have rods implanted in her skull to snap her new ear into place — and hold it even when this passionate swimmer dives into the pool.

"People who have implant-retained ears or noses or whatever usually think of them really as their own body," says Jerry Schoendorf, who with his colleague at The Anaplastology Clinic in Durham, N.C., — and surgeons at nearby Duke University Medical Center — created Elise's ear.

"It's the Rolls Royce of what we can offer," adds fellow anaplastologist Jay McClennen.
Facial prosthetics — made to counter damage from cancer, trauma, birth defects — haven't gained the attention of artificial legs and arms. The specialists who craft them can be hard to find: The International Anaplastology Association counts just 150 members worldwide.

But facial prosthetics are becoming more realistic and longer-lasting, and Elise's journey offers a glimpse of the tricks that help: Titanium rods adapted from dentistry that bond with bone to hold them in place. More flexible silicones. Even "flocking," using those nylon particles that make the velvety insides of jewelry boxes can help give silicone "skin" more dimension — and not in flesh tones, but flecks of bright reds, plums, blues, oranges.

Patients "can't believe all those colors go into making that skin," says McClennen, who now fixes faces using techniques honed in previous careers to "age" actors in the movies, and in forensic reconstruction.

No one knows for sure how Elise was burned. Probably, boiling water sloshed down her head and right side, says Kim Williams of Wake Forest, N.C., who with her husband adopted Elise from a Chinese orphanage at age 9. Plastic surgery enabled hair to cover the scar-riddled right side of her scalp, a shield as Elise learned English and met new friends.

Plastic surgeons started but abandoned ear reconstruction. Prosthetics made to glue on daily are a more common option, especially for cancer patients whose doctors need to regularly check for recurrences. But that didn't work for Elise. Her scars interfered with a straight fit, and crusty adhesive lined edges where she didn't clean the prosthetic well enough.

Then Schoendorf suggested an implant-retained ear: It would cost about $8,000 to $10,000, nearly double an adhesive-retained prosthesis, plus surgery. But where a glue-on ear prosthetic might last about three years before wearing out, the implant-retained one should last twice as long, he says. Replacements will fit onto those same rods, making surgery a one-time hurdle.

In June, Schoendorf and McClennen made a precise mold of where a new ear implant would need to fit. With the residual ear tissue carefully removed, Duke otolaryngologist Dr. David Kaylie then drilled tiny titanium posts into Elise's skull. They barely emerge from the skin.

Over the next few months, bone cells called osteoblasts will fuse with the titanium to anchor those rods, he told her.

"If you wiggle it while it's healing, that prevents those osteoblasts from growing in," Kaylie cautions. "They really have to keep their hands off."

Back at The Anaplastology Clinic, McClennen was sculpting the ear that eventually would hook onto those rods with a mere three clicks. Elise's has a bar on the back to snap it on; noses especially are starting to be made with magnets for attachment.

Coloring brings out the true art. In the 1990s, as part of a team working on movies like "Nixon" and "Legends of the Fall," McClennen learned to impregnate colorless silicone with a mix of colors so the finished prosthetic required only thin glazing and not heavy paint. Harder acrylic threaded through the rubbery silicone like cartilage holds the retention bar and, with a technique gleaned at a cancer center in Toronto, McClennen used the right color to mimic that red glow when sunlight shines behind the ear.

Blending where the edges meet real skin is crucial, as is managing expectations, Schoendorf says: "As good as it is, it's not perfect."

The day before Thanksgiving, Elise's new ear is ready to attach, complete with earring hole. She practices clicking it on, surprised that it's easy, and smiles into the mirror, hair tucked back.

"This one looks fantastic," she later proclaims. ( foxnews.com )


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Outrage, remorse after Rutgers student's death


Outrage, remorse after Rutgers student's death - The death of a Rutgers University freshman stirred outrage and remorse among classmates who said they wished they could have stopped the teen from jumping off a bridge after secret video of his sexual encounter with a man was streamed online.


Tyler Clementi, 18, jumped off the George Washington Bridge into the Hudson River last week. His body was identified Thursday after being found in the river a day before.


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"Had he been in bed with a woman, this would not have happened," said Rutgers student Lauren Felton, 21, of Warren. "He wouldn't have been outed via an online broadcast, and his privacy would have been respected and he might still have his life."


Clementi had just started at Rutgers, which bills itself as the state university of New Jersey, and was a talented violinist whose life revolved around music, friends and mentors said.


"Musically, Tyler was destined for greatness," childhood friend Mary Alcaro, who played in a summer music academy with him, said Thursday in an e-mail to The Associated Press. "I've never heard anyone make a violin sing the way he did."


Ed Schmiedecke, the recently retired music director at Ridgewood High School, from which Clementi graduated this year, called Clementi "a terrific musician, and a very promising, hardworking young man."


Clementi's roommate, Dharun Ravi, and fellow Rutgers freshman Molly Wei, both 18, have been charged with invading Clementi's privacy. Middlesex County prosecutors say that they used a webcam to surreptitiously transmit a live image of Clementi having sex Sept. 19 and that Ravi tried to webcast a second encounter on Sept. 21, the day before Clementi's suicide.


Collecting or viewing sexual images without consent is a fourth-degree crime, and transmitting them is a third-degree crime with a maximum prison term of five years. A lawyer for Ravi, of Plainsboro, did not immediately return a message seeking comment, and it was unclear whether Wei, of Princeton, had retained a lawyer.


A spokesman for the Middlesex County prosecutor's office didn't return messages inquiring whether there could be additional charges, and experts diverged on the potential for the pair to face more severe charges in light of Clementi's apparent suicide.


Parry Aftab, who runs the website WiredSafety, said it's possible the classmates could be prosecuted for violating Clementi's civil rights.


"If these kids could get away with one privacy law violation, that would be a sin," she said.


But former assistant Essex County prosecutor Luanne Peterpaul said such a prosecution was unlikely because the federal government doesn't recognize sexual orientation as a protected class.


Peterpaul, vice chairwoman of the gay rights group Garden State Equality, said prosecutors might be able to pursue the case as a hate crime if they could establish that the defendants were motivated to act because they perceived Clementi as gay. But that can be hard to prove, she said.


A lawyer for Clementi's family has not responded to requests for comment on whether Clementi was open about his sexual orientation.


Gov. Chris Christie, a former federal prosecutor, said he would let Attorney General Paula Dow decide whether to prosecute two classmates on civil rights charges. But he sent a warning to students who taunt or pull pranks on others.


"You don't know the feelings of the people on the receiving end of that," he said. "You can't possibly know. There might be some people who could take that type of treatment and deal with it, and there might be others, as this young man obviously was, who are much more greatly affected by it."


His death also stirred outrage at his new school, even if he wasn't very well known.


"The notion that video of Tyler doing what he was doing can be considered a spectacle is just heinous," said Jordan Gochman, 19, of Jackson, who didn't know Clementi. "It's intolerant, it's upsetting, it makes it seem that being gay is something that is wrong and can be considered laughable."

Other students who knew Clement were upset that they didn't do more to help him.


"I wish I could have been more of an ally," said Georges Richa, a freshman from neighboring New Brunswick.


"No person should have to endure such shame and humiliation," said Alcaro, who grew up with Clementi in Bergen County, west of New York City. "I'm disillusioned that in a generation that prides itself on acceptance and tolerance, people can still be so closed-minded and downright hateful."


About 100 people gathered Wednesday night for a vigil on campus. They lay on the ground and chanted slogans like, "We're here, we're queer, we're not going home."


Rutgers University President Richard McCormick wrote in a letter to the campus, "If the charges are true, these actions gravely violate the university's standards of decency and humanity."


Coincidentally, the university this week launched Project Civility, designed to get students thinking about how they treat others.


Gay rights groups say the suicide makes Clementi a national example of a problem they are increasingly working to combat: young people who kill themselves after being tormented over their sexuality.


On Tuesday, a 13-year-old California boy died nine days after classmates found him hanging from a tree. Authorities say other teens had taunted the boy, Seth Walsh of Tehachapi, for being gay.


Steven Goldstein, chairman of Garden State Equality, said in a statement that his group considers Clementi's death a hate crime.


"We are heartbroken over the tragic loss of a young man who, by all accounts, was brilliant, talented and kind," Goldstein said. "And we are sickened that anyone in our society, such as the students allegedly responsible for making the surreptitious video, might consider destroying others' lives as a sport." (
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How to Wow Him in One Date


How to Wow Him in One Date. After a single dinner, dating columnist Jake thinks he may have found The Girl. How on earth did he fall so hard, so fast?

Two weeks after my latest breakup (I ended things with the 22-year-old I talked about in a recent column), I kept thinking how I never stick with things for long. I had the creeping suspicion that my heart was a steely machine that pumped antifreeze into my unfeeling extremities. Then I went out with Strawberry (you'll see why I call her that), and everything changed.

Strawberry used to date an acquaintance of mine, and we stayed in e-mail touch since they broke up — no innuendo, just wisecracks and innocent banter about food and books. When we made plans to grab a drink — a reunion, not a date — I was totally unprepared for what happened.

Over the course of three hours, Strawberry went from girl-next-door cute to grown-woman irresistible. And, no, the shift wasn't because of alcohol or how great she looked in skinny jeans or even how her red hair fell over her shoulders in shiny tidal waves. Here's what did it.

She wasn't afraid to be goofy

I don't take myself too seriously and tend to have a hard time with people who do. I remember how one ex, Jenny, was borderline obsessed with what other people thought. Once when I dared to dance a little shimmy on an elevator, she glared at me and hissed, "Never do that again," like I was a misbehaving toddler. But Strawberry encouraged my silliness — even my bad Italian accent — onlookers be damned. Better still, she made funny faces and told even funnier dirty jokes.

She could talk about anything

From whiskey to Lady Gaga, Strawberry could dish about the lowbrow (Jersey Shore) and the high (the vacation she wanted to take to Tuscany). I was left feeling like she was a woman who is neither stuck up nor uncivilized.

She was happy

A week earlier, I had gone out with someone who was as cranky as she was sexy — she complained about everything. Who wants to hear about long lines at OfficeMax? Or that every man she knows is a baby? Strawberry was amped about life, and if she had baggage, she sure didn't unpack it at the table. It was clear she loves her job and her friends.

She's into literature, swimming, music — and more things I haven't heard about yet but want to. Here was a woman who exuded satisfaction and clearly didn't need a man to give her a sense of well-being. She had some kind of energy that shut off that Seinfeldian part of me that scrutinizes behaviors to see if they'll drive me crazy. As she talked, I sat there visualizing us coming home after a stressful day at work and laughing it off over wine. I could see us doing that for years — forever. Yeah, I was that hooked.

Drinks turned into dinner, dinner to more drinks, and then we kissed before she descended the subway stairs. She tried to wipe her strawberry lip gloss from my mouth, but I tasted it the whole way home and felt like I'd just watched a good movie. I kept replaying the scenes.

I don't know how ready I am to be with just one person. But I do know this: It was a lot easier to dismiss the idea of commitment before I spent three sweet hours with Strawberry. So I'll be seeing her next week — and hopefully a lot more after that. Hey, maybe there's a warm, beating heart in there after all. ( msn.com )



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Tips For A Broken Relationship


7 Breakup Tips For A Broken Relationship. When a relationship is on its last leg and a breakup is inevitable, who ends it? Recognizing that her habits have become annoying instead of cute is just the start. Her rude cell phone calls mid-meal, the way she thinks she's always right and her complete lack of respect for your opinion should all be sending you a clear message.

Relationships often go bad -- and stay that way. Even when both parties know that they would be happier with someone else, it's human nature to procrastinate about difficult decisions. So rather than riding inertia's wave, use these seven breakup tips for a broken relationship and move on.

1- Make her the first to know

Out of respect for her, never tell your friends you're going to break up before telling her it's over. It's a simple thing women consider sacred. The all too connected grapevine is not the place she should or deserves to be told that you're no longer interested. You could discuss some relationship problems you're having with your buddies, but your final decision to break up with her should remain private.

Use your judgment to decide which day would be best to break the news to her. If she's very emotional and you think that you'll break her heart, try to do it on a Friday. This will give her the weekend to recover and spend time with friends. But if she's the type to plow through full steam ahead, then perhaps Monday would be best. This will ensure that her busy workweek will keep her mind off the breakup and you.

Remember that there will be no "perfect time" to end the relationship. The best thing to do is set a random Monday or Friday to break up -- and stick to it.

2- Find a neutral zone

Our second point in our list of seven breakup tips for a broken relationship is for you to know and remember that it's not fair to end the relationship at your place, and neither should you be forced to see a picture on her fridge of you and her hugging. Try to find a neutral locale where both of you would be comfortable to express your feelings, like at a park. At least there you can walk and talk, or maybe even find a more secluded spot.

A restaurant, on the other hand, is a bad choice. If she makes a scene, there's no respectful recovery and no quick way out. However, fear of embarrassment is never a reason to leave her in the middle of nowhere. No matter how emotional and heated the conversation gets, there's no excuse for risking her safety or yours.

3- End it in person

If you've lost that loving feeling, be courteous and tell her face-to-face. Phone calls and e-mail are fine for small talk, but this is a big issue. It's natural to want as much distance as possible between you and her when you break the bad news, but in this case, fight your instincts and have the decency to say it to her face. The fact that you're reading our seven breakup tips for a broken relationship tells us that you're a bigger man than the guy who dials and dumps.

4- Keep it simple

There's no need to put her through the history of your decision to break up. She does deserve an explanation, but save her (and yourself) the long-winded reasons of exactly why and how things went sour. Be clear about the fact that you feel the relationship is at an end, but pepper that crystal-clear reality with a significant dose of regret.

It's important to let her know that the decision to split up is difficult for you too. By letting this be known, you make a soon-to-be-ex-girlfriend a friend in mutual sorrow. A few words to the wise: Don't say you're going to call if you're not going to. Part of keeping it simple also includes ending it smoothly -- be fair to both you and her.

If you're unclear about how you're ending it with her, it could result in a dragged out breakup. Don't break up in stages -- if you want to sever the ties, there's no time like the present.

5- Get her to see your point of view

Who can argue with logic? You're probably not the only one that's been feeling the relationship going downhill. A dose of reality might be just what the doctor ordered to get her to accept what it is you need to say -- and do -- about it. A good way to get her to understand why the two of you aren't best-suited for one another is through a simple example. But make sure you get her to start the ball rolling.

Ask her if she's been feeling the lag in your relationship. She'll probably have quite a few examples about why things haven't been working out. Letting her talk it through will help her see why you brought the topic up in the first place.

6- Don't change your mind

There's a big reason why you made the decision to confront her with the end of your relationship. She may argue, cry or even "not understand why you're doing this," but be sure and stick to your guns. There's nothing worse than a flip-flop relationship -- you're either in or you're out. So make sure you have rebuttals for all her potential comebacks.

7- Be ready for tears

Whether she's glad you said something or not, chances are tears will be shed. Ending a relationship can bring intense emotion and she's not about to save you from seeing it all pour out at once. When she does start to cry, be sympathetic but don't be drawn in by an overflow of powerful emotion. Be an emotional rock. If your new ex is the stoic type (saving her emotions for a later time when you're not around), don't try to cajole a reaction from her. Let her be and tell her that you're ready to talk when she is.

Make sure to have plans set with friends later that day. This will ensure that the breakup process isn't dragged on longer than necessary and that you're not alone if you feel bad about what just happened. Don't be one of those guys who wants to prove one last time that he cares by breaking off his plans with his friends; that's amateur stuff.

Know when to fold 'em

Ending a relationship is never easy. But having the courage to follow through with your decision will make both you and her happier when the relationship has already passed its "best before" date. Be true to your emotions and do what's best for you and her. ( askmen.com )


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Why can't I lose weight?


Why can't I lose weight?. According to a report by Mintel, at least one in six women is trying to lose weight. If you're losing the battle perhaps it's because of one of the reasons below:

1. Your upbringing Weight problems may be linked to whether you were breast or bottle-fed. According to German research, breastfed babies are less likely to be overweight as they get older.

This could be because they are fed on demand, establishing healthy eating habits, while bottle-fed babies tend to be fed when the mother decides it's time, so the baby may not actually be hungry.

'This could damage the baby's innate eating control ability,' says Dr Susan Jebb, head of nutrition health research at the Medical Research Council in Cambridge.

2. Lying about what you eat Research shows obese people under-report when asked to fill in a food diary. 'People who are overweight have a tendency to kid themselves that they don't eat more than anyone else,' says Dr Wendy Doyle of the British Dieticians Association.

She advises keeping a diary for a week, writing down everything you eat and drink. 'If you can force yourself to be honest, you will probably be surprised at the sheer quantity.'

If someone is obese, then they eat 2,500 calories per day just to stay at this weight. Once this amount is reduced, the weight should come off.

3. Insufficient sleep If you are not losing weight, it may simply be that you're exhausted. Rozalind Gruben, who runs health and nutrition company Health Unlimited, says: 'If you are feeling tired, the chances are you won't exercise, and will have little willpower to resist stimulating and fattening foods. In addition, an exhausted body is crippled in its ability to detoxify or release stored fat.' She advises that you listen to your body signals and try taking more rest.

4. A lack of muscle The more muscle you have, the higher your metabolic rate. Muscle burns 25-33pc more calories than fat.

The best way to increase your muscle mass is to do strength training. Beginners usually find it easiest to follow a course of exercises on machines in a gym. Later, you can follow a programme on your own at home using free weights or your own body weight for resistance. Ideally, you should strength train three times a week, targeting at least eight major muscle groups.

5. An underactive thyroid The job of the thyroid gland is to produce thyroxin, a hormone which can affect your metabolism.

The two most common types of problems that occur with the gland are overactive thyroids (hyperthyroidism) and underactive thyroids (hypothyroidism). It is the latter that can result in weight gain, as it decreases your metabolic rate by 5pc.

Other symptoms include a lack of energy, a slow heartbeat, dry thick skin and a puffy face. Once detected, it can be treated by a thyroid hormone drug which will restore your metabolism to its normal rate.

6. It's in your genes If you're worried that you are gradually growing into the figure of your mother, your fears may be justified.

According to James O. Hill, director of the Center for Human Nutrition at the University of Colorado in Denver: 'With genes, gender and hormones in common, mothers can often provide daughters with a fairly accurate map to their future shape.'

There are three main genetic body shapes or 'somatypes' - ectomorph (naturally long and lean), mesomorph (muscular frame) and endormorph (more rounded appearance).

'Genetically, everyone is dealt a pack of cards - but, ultimately, it's up to you how you play them,' explains nutritionist Penny Hunking. 'There is a lot you can do to counteract genetics - through sensible eating and exercise.'

7. You skip breakfast Studies show that people who eat breakfast are leaner than those who don't. Eating breakfast helps prevent high-fat snacking later in the day.

Penny Hunking recommends starting the day with some cereal and toast with low-fat spread and Marmite. Alternatively try mushrooms and tomatoes on toast, or yoghurt and fresh fruit.

'Eating a high-carbohydrate, low-fat breakfast will kick-start your metabolism and improve your concentration and performance later in the day,' says Hunking.

8. You have 'PCOS' Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) affects one in ten women. It gets its name from the tiny cysts that form on the ovaries. These are actually a symptom of the condition, not the cause, and are different to ovarian cysts.

Women with PCOS are often overweight and have problems losing weight, particularly around their middle. Other common symptoms include excess body hair, fatigue, period and fertility problems, breast pain and acne.

9. Worrying about weight Distress about being overweight can reduce your body's ability to shed unwanted pounds. Rozalind Gruben says long-term stress exhausts the adrenals. 'These glands produce cortisol and thyroxin, both of which are needed for the releasing of stored fat.'

10. Deficient in nutrients A lack of vital nutrients will result in less energy and, consequently, a greater predisposition to laying down fat. Essential vitamins and minerals for weight loss include B1, B2, B3, B6, C, iron, chromium, zinc and co-enzyme Q10.

'Ensuring that you have an adequate supply of these nutrients will increase the effectiveness of any weight loss programme,' says Patrick Holford, author of The Optimum Nutrition Bible. ( dailymail.co.uk )



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Sepuluh Hal Tentang Propaganda


Sepuluh Hal Tentang Propaganda.

1 - Menyajikan fakta (kebenaran) bukan berarti terlepas dari yang namanya propaganda; propaganda berkembang pesat dalam menyajikan berbagai jenis kebenaran, termasuk fakta yang hanya mengandung setengah kebenaran, fakta yg sama sekali tidak benar, fakta yang terbatas, lepas dari konteks kebenaran itu sendiri. Propaganda modern yang paling efektif adalah ketika propaganda tersebut menyajikan informasi seakurat mungkin. Menyajikan Kedustaan yang besar atau Kebohongan Tinggi merupakan bentuk propaganda yang paling tidak efektif.

2 - Propaganda tidaklah begitu banyak didesign untuk mengubah pendapat sebanyak sebagaimana ia didesign untuk memperkuat pendapat, prasangka dan sikap yang ada. Propaganda yang paling berhasil adalah propaganda yang akan mendorong manusia untuk beraksi atau sebaliknya memperkuat sesuatu yang tadinya sudah diyakini oleh manusia sebagai kebenaran, kemudian dijadikan sedemikian hingga orang itu tidak lagi mempercayai kebenaran tersebut dan menjadikannya malas melakukan kebenaran yang sebelumnya telah ia yakini.

3 - Pendidikan tidaklah memerlukan perlindungan terbaik melawan propaganda. Para cendikiawan dan mereka "yang berpendidikan" merupakan komponen yang paling ringkih terhadap kampanye propaganda, karena mereka (

  • cenderung menyerap kebanyakan informasi (termasuk informasi dari tangan kedua, kabar dari orang, desas-desus, dan informasi yang tidak bisa dibuktikan kebenarannya); (
  • terpaksa memiliki pendapat atas hal-hal yang terjadi pada suatu hari tertentu dan hingga dengan begitu mereka mengekspos pendapatnya sendiri lebih daripada pendapat-pendapat orang lain dan mengkampanyekan propaganda; dan
  • menganggap diri mereka sendiri bebas dari pengaruh propaganda, dengan cara demikian mereka telah membuat diri mereka sendiri lebih rentan terhadap propaganda.

4 - Apa yang membuat penelitian mengenai propaganda menjadi demikian meragukan adalah bahwa secara umum hal tersebut dianggap sebagai penelitian sisi yang lebih gelap dari sifat kami; penelitian mengenai kejahatan mereka lawan sisi baik kami. Mereka yang kami pertimbangkan sebagai kejahatan yang berkembang pesat dalam propaganda, sementara kami hanya menyebarkan kebenaran saja. Cara terbaik untuk mempelajari propaganda adalah dengan memisahkan pertimbangan-pertimbangan etis seseorang dari fenomena gejala itu sendiri. Propaganda berkembang pesat dan eksis, demi kepentingan etis dan tidak etis.

5 - Propaganda mencoba mengubah pendapat umum, khususnya untuk menjadikan orang agar menyesuaikan diri terhadap sudut pandang propagandis. Dalam segi ini, propaganda manapun merupakan suatu bentuk manipulasi, untuk merubah aktivitas individu menjadi aktivitas khusus.

6 - Bentuk-bentuk komunikasi Modern, termasuk media massa, merupakan alat-alat propaganda. Tanpa pemusatan monopoli media massa, bisa dipastikan tidak ada terjadi propaganda modern. Untuk propaganda agar berkembang pesat, media harus tetap terpusat, kantor berita dan layanannya harus dibatasi, pers harus berada di bawah pimpinan pusat, dan radio, film, dan monopoli televisi harus meliputi semuanya.

7 - Setiap orang harus peduli terhadap yang namanya propaganda, keterbatasannya, kekuatannya, pengaruhnya, dan kualitas persuasifnya, manakala seseorang menguasainya. Dengan mengatakan bahwa "seseorang bebas dari pengaruh propaganda" justru itu merupakan suatu tanda pasti bahwa propaganda tersebut telah tersebar dalam masyarakat.

8- Propaganda Modern bermula di negara berhukum thoghut Amerika Serikat pada awal Abad 20-an. Selama Perang Dunia I, media massa diintegrasikan dengan metode hubungan masyarakat dan periklanan demi mengadvokasi dan membiayai bantuan untuk perang. Dewan Kembu mendirikan kampanye humas Amerika pertama untuk menyebarkan dan menebarkan ajaran injil dengan cara Amerika ke seluruh penjuru bola dunia.

9 - Di Negara thoghut Amerika Serikat, propaganda komersial pribadi merupakan hal yang sama pentingnya dengan gagasan demokrasi propaganda pemerintah. Iklan komersial menarik perhatian orang-orang melalui periklanan, yang merangsang fantasi dan dorongan hati yang tidak masuk akal, merupakan beberapa bentuk propaganda yang paling tersebar dalam keberadaannya hari ini.

10 - Propaganda dalam suatu sistem kuffar demokrasi memperlihatkan fakta dalam pengertian bahwa propaganda tersebut menciptakan "pengikut sejati" yang secara ideologi terikat dengan perkembangan demokrasi tersebut sebagaimana lainnya yang terikat secara ideologi atas kontrolnya. Pengabadian sistem kuffar demokrasi dan keyakinan ideal dalam menghadapi kekuatan yang terpusat dalam institusi-institusi propaganda (baik itu media maupun institusi-institusi politik) merupakan suatu bentuk kemenangan propaganda busuk yang terjadi dalam masyarakat modern Amerika (ص'l).

Artikel ini disusun oleh Nancy Snow, Ph.D. (Jacques Ellul, Propaganda) yang kemudian diterjemahkan secara bebas tanpa mengurangi makna yg sebenarnya.

Sumber: Theunjustmedia.com


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Finding Work After the Military


Finding Work After the Military. Men and women who leave the military might put dangerous missions behind them, but they face a host of other challenges when they return to civilian life. In addition to adapting to a comparatively calm daily routine and dealing with other effects of service, military leavers have to find work with a new employer.

With 23.7 million veterans in the country and 11.1 million of them under the age of 65 in the work force, according to the U.S. Census Bureau, these men and women comprise a large portion of workers.

"The key to success, as a veteran, in finding your feet when you return to the civilian environment is to understand yourself: who you are, what you value, where you can improve yourself," says Ken Betterton, a government and military consultant. "There are some simple tests you can take to establish your psychological preferences."

Your next step is to decide if you want to continue down the career path you began in the military or if you want to make a switch.

"If your current path in the military lights the passion in you and you are experiencing pleasure and growth instead of pain and chaos, stick with it. But if not, don't be afraid to step outside the box and discover careers in new and different fields," Betterton advises.



Where the jobs are

As more men and women in the service return from their tours of duty, trends have begun to emerge signaling industries that make for easy transitions to the work force.

Military personnel who have experience driving large vehicles in the service are finding work as truck drivers. Companies like Con-way Truckload are actively working with the Department of Veteran Affairs to recruit active and post-service military personnel to the company.

Police departments are welcoming veterans, too, according to Betterton. In the military, you learn to work as a team, endure physical obstacles and develop strategies -- all assets to police work.

Plenty of service experience lays the groundwork for a consulting position. Scott Laliberte, a former information systems security officer for the Coast Guard, is now an expert on data security and managing director for Protiviti, a consulting and internal audit firm. After all, military personnel often have access to some of the world's most sophisticated technology before anyone else, so they would be the authorities on how to use it.

Other veterans capitalize on the soft skills they learned in the service rather than on their specific duties and become entrepreneurs. The discipline and leadership qualities they developed give them a base to be their own bosses, as long as they have some business know-how, of course.

Pizza chain Little Caesars offers discounts and training to veterans to franchise their own locations. Honorably discharged after five years of service, Steve Yoho decided to leave his work in the auto industry to have his own business.

He's just one of several following this trend.

Stacie Rine, a retired Navy combat pilot, depended on massage therapy in her most challenging moments, so she started her own Massage Heights franchise. Debi and Rick Lajti, both Air Force veterans, opened a TSS Photography franchise.

How to make the change

Wendy Enelow, author of "Expert Résumés for Military-to-Civilian Transitions," has some suggestions for veterans entering the work force:

1. If you do want to continue down the career path you've already begun, itemize your skills so that you can look for related work.

"Military personnel must clearly understand the skills and knowledge they have and where the opportunities exist in the civilian marketplace for individuals with their particular skill sets," Enelow says. Once you've done this, you can target your job search to the right employers.

2. Translate your experience for employers by using terms and descriptions relevant to their needs. Like any other job seeker, you can't expect the hiring manager to do the work for you.

Enelow suggests translating military ranks into job titles that make sense to them. "Don't use the names of specific military technologies which mean nothing outside of that realm; rather, talk about advanced electronics technologies. Don't make people have to study the résumé to understand; spell it out."

3. Use keywords that appeal to hiring managers to get your résumé noticed. "Command and control" won't help you get hired, but "advanced communications technologies" will, Enelow says. ( msn.com )



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Lack of exercise may not explain teen obesity


Lack of exercise may not explain teen obesity – Most U.S. teenagers are not as active as they should be, but a lack of exercise does not seem to account for rising rates of teen obesity, a new study finds.

Using government survey data collected between 1991 and 2007, researchers found that in recent years, U.S. teens have averaged more time in gym class and less time in front of the TV.

Moreover, there was no evidence that teens' exercise levels changed appreciably at any time during the study period -- even though those years saw an increase in teen obesity. It's estimated that nearly one-third of U.S. children and teens are now overweight or obese.

The findings suggest that waning exercise levels are "not likely the major explanation of the recent increase in obesity among U.S. adolescents," the investigators report in the journal Obesity Reviews.

That does not mean, however, that it's fine for teenagers to be sedentary. Children and teens still need to develop regular exercise habits for the sake of their overall health, according to the researchers.

"Our study suggests that more vigorous efforts are needed to help young Americans engage in adequate regular physical activity and reduce sedentary behaviors, which will help promote good health," senior researcher Dr. Youfa Wang, of Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, said in a news release from the university.

For the study, Wang and colleagues used data from an annual government survey that tracks the health and lifestyle of U.S. high school students.

Overall, they found, only 35 percent of teenagers surveyed in 2007 met the current recommendations for physical activity -- performing any activity that gets the heart rate up at least one hour per day, five or more days out of the week.

But there was no evidence that teenagers' exercise habits shifted significantly during the study period.

In 1993, for example, 66 percent of teens got enough short bursts of vigorous exercise -- 20 minutes of running, biking or other heart-pumping activity at least three days per week. That figure was 64 percent in 2005.

When it came to moderate exercise -- which should, according to guidelines, be performed at least 30 minutes per day, on five or more days per week -- only 27 percent met that goal in 1999 (the first year in which the survey asked this question). That figure was unchanged in 2005.

On the other hand, there were some encouraging trends, according to Wang's team. One was the recent increase in time spent in school physical education classes: in 2007, 30 percent of high schoolers were taking a daily physical education class, versus 25 percent in 1995.

The researchers also found a decline in teenagers' TV time. In 1999, 43 percent of students spent three or more hours watching TV on school days -- a figure that dipped to 35 percent in 2007.

As a whole, the researchers write, the findings suggest that exercise habits have not been the main factor in the nation's teen obesity problem.

"Although only one third of U.S. adolescents met the recommended levels of physical activity," Wang said, "there is no clear evidence they had become less active over the past decade while the prevalence of obesity continued to rise."

Instead, he said, other factors -- like unhealthy diets -- may be the driving force.

More studies are needed to better understand the factors feeding the nation's obesity trends, and how to best combat them, the researchers conclude.

SOURCE: Obesity Reviews, online October 30, 2009.

(Reuters Health)



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